Laura McCarthy

Certified Transational Analyst, Psychotherapist, Counsellor & Specialist Mentor

Most people I work with are used to holding it together. On the surface, you may look capable and functional, but underneath there can be anxiety, exhaustion, self doubt, or a persistent sense that something is not right. You might question whether what you are experiencing is serious enough for therapy, or assume it is just part of your personality. I do not take that at face value. I look at what has shaped your experience, including trauma, relationships, and the conditions you have had to live in.

My approach is trauma informed, power aware, and explicitly feminist. That means we do not only focus on your thoughts and feelings in isolation. We also look at how your experiences have been shaped by relationships, expectations, and wider systems of power. This work can be challenging, but it is grounded in safety, clarity, and helping you build a stronger, more stable sense of yourself. You remain in control of the process throughout.

Specialisms

Trauma, anxiety, and overwhelm

I work with trauma, anxiety, depression, burnout, relationship difficulties, loss, and low self worth. These experiences are often treated as separate problems, but they are frequently connected. Together we look at the patterns underneath them and how they have developed, so that change is not just about coping, but about understanding and shifting what is driving them.

Neurodivergence

I work with ADHD, autism, dyslexia, and other neurodivergent differences. This can include masking, sensory overwhelm, and rejection sensitivity. Many people I see have spent years trying to fit expectations that do not suit them, often leading to shame, self criticism, and exhaustion. Therapy here is not about fixing you. It is about understanding how you work and building a way of living that actually fits.

Women, power, and identity

Much of my work is with women navigating confidence, boundaries, people pleasing, burnout, perimenopause and menopause, motherhood, and work pressures. These are often framed as individual struggles, but they are shaped by expectations, roles, and power. We look at both your internal experience and the external context that has influenced it, so that change is grounded in reality rather than self blame.

Domestic and sexual abuse

I specialise in domestic abuse, coercive control, sexual violence, grooming, childhood trauma, ritual abuse, and exploitation, including sex trafficking. Many people who come to me are not sure whether what they have experienced is abuse. You may feel confused, constantly second guessing yourself, or as though you are overreacting. You might feel anxious in a relationship without fully understanding why, or find yourself walking on eggshells and losing confidence in your own judgement. Abuse is not always obvious. It can be subtle, normalised, and difficult to name, especially when it involves control, manipulation, or psychological pressure rather than physical violence. It can also be organised and hidden, particularly in cases of ritual or extreme abuse. Part of the work is making sense of what has happened and naming it accurately, without forcing labels onto you. You do not need to be sure it counts as abuse to bring it here.

Therapy with me offers a space to breathe, be believed, and begin to feel clearer and stronger again.

If this feels like the right fit, I would be glad to hear from you.

Laura McCarthy

MSc (Psych), CTA, Dip., UKCP, MBACP

Individual Counselling

I am currently taking enquiries for individual work. 

Are you struggling with feelings of anxiety, anger, or depression? If you’re feeling overwhelmed, scared, or hurt, having a safe space to express yourself and feel understood could truly make a difference in your life.

The effectiveness of therapy hinges on the rapport between therapist and client. It’s essential for you to feel at ease working with me, knowing that I possess the skills needed to deliver optimal results and value for your investment.

We can explore whether we’re a good match during an initial session together.

Initial Session

During the initial individual session, which is typically 50 minutes long and charged at my standard fee, I’ll begin by asking some administrative questions. This includes gathering your address, date of birth, and your doctor’s details, to ensure that I have all the necessary background information to continue our work together.

Next, I’ll ask you about the reason that brought you to therapy.

Towards the end of the session, we’ll collaborate to decide if we feel comfortable working together and establish what you would like the ultimate outcome of therapy to be and decide if the work should be short-term (ten sessions), long-term (six months to one year), or if it should remain open-ended.

Weekly or Fortnightly Sessions

I offer therapy on a weekly or fortnightly basis. Sessions will be held at the same time and date each week and will be 50 minutes long.

Missing or Re-scheduling Sessions

If a session cannot be attended 48 hours notice is required. Sessions not attended without 48 hours notice will be charged at my usual fee.

I will always try to find an alternative appointment time, however re-scheduled appointments in the same week are not always possible.

 

Couples Counselling

I am currently fully booked for regular ongoing couples work, however I do have capacity for one-off couples recovery sessions.

Every relationship goes through periods of challenge. When communication breaks down, even small misunderstandings can feel painful and hard to repair. Couples counselling offers a space to slow things down, reconnect, and begin to understand each other again.

I offer a calm, confidential, and non-judgemental space where both partners can feel heard. The work is an opportunity to really listen to your partner, to understand what happens between you, and to begin responding with greater awareness and compassion. Together, we look at how you each communicate, what triggers conflict, and what might help you both feel safer and more emotionally connected.

I must stress that couples therapy is not simply about turning up. It is about change and growth. The focus is on what each of you can do differently to improve your attachment, deepen intimacy, and repair trust. This process asks for maturity, honesty, and a willingness to reflect on your own patterns as well as your partner’s. It is not about being proved right or assigning blame.

Further more for the work to be effective, the space must remain respectful and emotionally safe. When sessions become dominated by anger, contempt, or control, therapy cannot continue productively. My role is to maintain safety and containment, and at times that may mean pausing the work or suggesting individual therapy instead. If either of you are uncertain about continuing the relationship or struggling to manage strong emotions, individual counselling can be a valuable first step. Where there are ongoing issues of coercion, emotional abuse, or sustained hostility, I will always prioritise the safety and wellbeing of everyone involved.

Couples therapy can be a powerful and hopeful process when both partners are ready to engage with curiosity, accountability, and a genuine desire to understand and grow together.

Initial Session

In couples work, you will learn to understand and communicate your feelings and needs more clearly, without ending up in arguments. You will learn to listen to your partner and hear how they feel and what they need from you to make the relationship better.

I offer couples the option of on-going counselling in 60-min weekly sessions (usually six to twelve sessions are required) or an intense 120-min recovery session to get to the heart of the issue and kick start change.

There is no one size fits all, if you may prefer to methodically work through your relationship issues then weekly sessions may suit you best (please note: one 60-min session is not enough time to do the work required).

If you are feeling overwhelmed by the issues you are facing, then an intense 120-minute recovery session might be best, followed by some ongoing hourly sessions, although for some just one 120-min session is enough.

Weekly or Fortnighly Sessions

After we have agreed to work together, our weekly or fortnightly sessions will be held at the same time and date each week/fortnight and will be 60 minutes long.

Missing or Re-scheduling Sessions

If a session cannot be attended 48 hours notice is required. Regular sessions missed without 48 hours notice will be charged at my usual fee. I will always try to find an alternative appointment time but please note, re-scheduled appointments in the same week are not always possible.

Issues Worked With

Abusive Relationships

Domestic Abuse (Emotional, Physical, Sexual or Financial)

Domestic Violence

Post Separation Abuse

Narcissistic Abuse

Coercive Control

Gaslighting

Love Bombing

Gender Based Violence

Sibling Abuse

Trauma

Trauma Bond

Childhood Trauma

Child Sexual Abuse

Ritual Abuse

Mind Control

C-PTSD & PTSD

DID / Dissociation

Bullying

Panic Attacks

Suicidal Thoughts

Pre-Trial Therapy

Anxiety

Depression

Anger

Low Self-Esteem

Identity Issues

Neurodivergence (ADHD, ADD, Dyslexia)

Career Issues

Bereavement

Body Dysmorphia

Chronic Illness

Couples

Relationship Issues

Marriage Counselling

Pre-Marriage Counselling

Infidelity

High Conflict Separation & Divorce

Neurodivergent Couples

Heartbreak

My Fees

Individual (50mins)

£ 75

Per Session

Couple (60mins)

£ 100

Per Session

Couples (120mins)

£ 175

Per 120-min Recovery Session

Ramsgate, Kent or Online

(Sun-Tue 1-8pm)

Individual (50mins)

£ 125

Per Session

Couples (60mins)

£ 150

Per Session

Couples (120mins)

£ 250

Per 120-min Recovery Session

Harley Street, London

(Sat 9am-12pm)

My Qualifications

Training & Qualifications

  • Certified Transactional Analyst (CTA) (EATA).
  • MSc. in Psychotherapy  (Middlesex University).
  • Clinical Diploma in Transactional Analysis Psychotherapy (Metanoia Institute).
  • Diploma in Transactional Analysis Psychotherapeutic Counselling (Metanoia Institute).
  • Clinical Supervision Certificate, viewed through an Intersectional lens (TA East London Institute).
  • Clinical Certificate in Trauma-Focused Therapy (The Link Centre).
  • Level 4 Clinical Diploma in Rape and Sexual Abuse Counselling (EKRCC)
  • Diploma in Life Coaching (New Skills Academy).
  • CPD training in pre trial therapy, anti-racism and the Equality Act 2010.

Clinical Experience

  • Nine years of experience in private practice
  • Two additional years as an Associate Counsellor at Trinity Laban Conservatoire.
  • Two years of specialist mentor experience for undergraduate university music students.
  • I provide supervision to other counsellors and psychotherapists.
  • I am currently an outreach counsellor for East Kent Rape Crisis Centre.
  • I am the counselling and supervising trustee for Woman’s Trust. (Woman’s Trust is the charity that helps women in London overcome the mental and emotional harm caused by domestic abuse).
  • I specialise in working with clients diagnosed with personality disorders and have a particular interest in those diagnosed with Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) and Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (C-PTSD).

Ethical Principles

I am deeply committed to, practice and abide by the principles and ethics of EATA.

Memberships

To demonstrate my competence I am a member of several organisations, each of which requires the fulfillment of particular standards of training and knowledge by its associates.

  • Full clinical member of the UK Council of Psychotherapy (UKCP)
  • Registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP)
  • Member of Metanoia Institute.

As a reflection of my work with abuse survivors, I have been accepted as a member of:

  • Ritual Abuse Information Network and Support (RAINS)
  • European Society for Trauma and Dissociation (ESTD)
  • Anti Victim Blaming, Trauma-Informed Network (AVBTI)

Leadership Experience

Apart from my psychotherapy work, I also have 25 years of experience in the business industry and have worked as a marketing director in high-profile music companies, entertainment venues, and leisure experiences, which often entailed high-pressure situations.

My extensive leadership experience has enabled me to develop valuable skills that help people thrive in stressful situations. I am adept at mentoring and coaching individuals to reach their potential in both academia and business.

My Ramsgate practice is a 1 minute walk from both Waitrose and the seafront. Being 1 mile away from Ramsgate Train Station, I am within easy reach of Margate, Broadstairs, Dumpton, Birchington, Westgate, Pegwell, Sandwich, Deal, Dover, Whitstable and Herne Bay.
My London practice is in Harley Street W1G, making it within easy reach of North London, Islington, Euston, Camden and Central London. – Please note: hours at my London practice are currently very limited.