Laura McCarthy

Certified Transational Analyst, Psychotherapist, Counsellor & Specialist Mentor

I offer trauma-informed therapy for individuals and couples (18+) with a focus on supporting people affected by abuse and harm. This includes experiences of domestic violence (from a partner, family member, or carer), financial and coercive control, bullying, and sexual violence—including child sexual exploitation, ritual abuse, trafficking, or grooming.

My practice is a safe, welcoming space where you can share your experiences without judgment or labels that don’t serve you. I understand that trauma isn’t just personal—it’s also shaped by the world around us, including systems like patriarchy, racism, and colonialism. But healing is possible. No matter what you’ve been through, you are not broken, and your experiences do not define you.

I use a specialist therapeutic model designed specifically for victim-survivors, offering a structured, supportive approach to help you process what’s happened, rebuild a sense of safety, and move towards empowerment. My work is centered on giving you back choice and control, helping you reconnect with your strengths, and supporting you as you reclaim your life on your own terms.

I have extensive experience supporting people through post-separation abuse and divorce, as well as navigating the court process, whether pre-trial, during proceedings, or in the aftermath. I understand the additional trauma that legal systems can create, and I offer a space where you can process, prepare, and regain a sense of power in your journey.

Healing isn’t about being “fixed.” It’s about finding hope, rebuilding trust in yourself, and stepping into the future with greater confidence. My approach is feminist, intersectional, and shaped by what feels right for you—centering your unique experiences, strengths, and resilience.

With over a decade of clinical experience, including work with East Kent Rape Crisis Centre and Woman’s Trust, I specialise in supporting survivors of trauma, as well as those navigating Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), PTSD, and Complex PTSD (C-PTSD). I am trained in the Equality Act and anti-racism, and I work to actively challenge discrimination while making space for the full complexity of your identity and experiences.

My practice is inclusive and welcoming to people of all genders, sexualities, cultural backgrounds, and neurodivergent experiences, including autism, ADHD, and dyslexia.

You don’t have to go through this alone. There is hope, and support is here when you’re ready.

Laura McCarthy

MSc (Psych), CTA, Dip., UKCP, MBACP

Individual Counselling

Are you struggling with feelings of anxiety, anger, or depression? If you’re feeling overwhelmed, scared, or hurt, having a safe space to express yourself and feel understood could truly make a difference in your life.

The effectiveness of therapy hinges on the rapport between therapist and client. It’s essential for you to feel at ease working with me, knowing that I possess the skills needed to deliver optimal results and value for your investment.

We can explore whether we’re a good match during an initial session together.

Initial Session

During the initial individual session, which is typically 50 minutes long and charged at my standard fee, I’ll begin by asking some administrative questions. This includes gathering your address, date of birth, and your doctor’s details, to ensure that I have all the necessary background information to continue our work together.

Next, I’ll ask you about the reason that brought you to therapy.

Towards the end of the session, we’ll collaborate to decide if we feel comfortable working together and establish what you would like the ultimate outcome of therapy to be and decide if the work should be short-term (ten sessions), long-term (six months to one year), or if it should remain open-ended.

Weekly or Fortnightly Sessions

I offer therapy on a weekly or fortnightly basis. Sessions will be held at the same time and date each week and will be 50 minutes long.

Missing or Re-scheduling Sessions

If a session cannot be attended 48 hours notice is required. Sessions not attended without 48 hours notice will be charged at my usual fee.

I will always try to find an alternative appointment time, however re-scheduled appointments in the same week are not always possible.

 

Couples Counselling

Are you and your partner finding it challenging to communicate effectively, leading to frequent arguments? Perhaps you’re feeling stuck in your relationship, and it seems difficult to discuss issues without conflict.

As a couples therapist, I offer a confidential and non-judgemental space where you can address your relationship concerns safely. My role is to facilitate open communication between both partners, allowing each person to express themselves without fear of judgement or blame.

During couples counselling, we’ll work together to explore what’s causing the strain in your relationship and identify areas for improvement. It’s essential for both individuals to be committed to the process of healing and growth.

If there are doubts about continuing the relationship, I recommend starting with individual counselling before embarking on couples therapy. Additionally, if there is ongoing domestic abuse or violence, I prioritise the safety of all parties involved and may suggest individual counselling for the perpetrator.

Initial Session

In couples work, you will learn to understand and communicate your feelings and needs more clearly, without ending up in arguments. You will learn to listen to your partner and hear how they feel and what they need from you to make the relationship better.

I offer couples the option of on-going counselling in 60-min weekly sessions (usually six to twelve sessions are required) or an intense 120-min recovery session to get to the heart of the issue and kick start change.

There is no one size fits all, if you may prefer to methodically work through your relationship issues then weekly sessions may suit you best (please note: one 60-min session is not enough time to do the work required).

If you are feeling overwhelmed by the issues you are facing, then an intense 120-minute recovery session might be best, followed by some ongoing hourly sessions, although for some just one 120-min session is enough.

Weekly or Fortnighly Sessions

After we have agreed to work together, our weekly or fortnightly sessions will be held at the same time and date each week/fortnight and will be 60 minutes long.

Missing or Re-scheduling Sessions

If a session cannot be attended 48 hours notice is required. Regular sessions missed without 48 hours notice will be charged at my usual fee. I will always try to find an alternative appointment time but please note, re-scheduled appointments in the same week are not always possible.

Issues Worked With

Abusive Relationships

Domestic Abuse (Emotional, Physical, Sexual or Financial)

Domestic Violence

Post Separation Abuse/Divorce

Narcissistic Abuse

Gaslighting

Love Bombing

Gender Based Violence

Sibling Abuse

Trauma

Trauma Bond

Childhood Trauma

Child Sexual Abuse

Ritual Abuse

Mind Control

C-PTSD & PTSD

DID / Dissociation

Bullying

Panic Attacks

Suicidal Thoughts

Pre-Trial Therapy

Anxiety

Depression

Anger

Low Self-Esteem

Identity Issues

Neurodivergence (ADHD, ADD, Dyslexia)

Career Issues

Bereavement

Body Dysmorphia

Chronic Illness

Couples

Relationship Issues

Marriage Counselling

Pre-Marriage Counselling

Infidelity

Separation & Divorce

Heartbreak

My Fees

Individual (50mins)

£ 75

Per Session

Couple (60mins)

£ 85

Per Session

Couples (120mins)

£ 150

Per 120-min Recovery Session

Ramsgate, Kent or Online

(Sun-Tue 1-8pm)

Individual (50mins)

£ 125

Per Session

Couples (60mins)

£ 150

Per Session

Couples (120mins)

£ 250

Per 120-min Recovery Session

Harley Street, London

(Sat 9am-12pm)

My Qualifications

Training & Qualifications

  • Certified Transactional Analyst (CTA) (EATA).
  • MSc. in Psychotherapy  (Middlesex University).
  • Clinical Diploma in Transactional Analysis Psychotherapy (Metanoia Institute).
  • Diploma in Transactional Analysis Psychotherapeutic Counselling (Metanoia Institute).
  • Clinical Supervision Certificate, viewed through an Intersectional lens (TA East London Institute).
  • Clinical Certificate in Trauma-Focused Therapy (The Link Centre).
  • Level 4 Clinical Diploma in Rape and Sexual Abuse Counselling (EKRCC)
  • Diploma in Life Coaching (New Skills Academy).
  • CPD training in pre trial therapy, anti-racism and the Equality Act 2010.

Clinical Experience

  • Nine years of experience in private practice
  • Two additional years as an Associate Counsellor at Trinity Laban Conservatoire.
  • Two years of specialist mentor experience for undergraduate university music students.
  • I provide supervision to other counsellors and psychotherapists.
  • I am currently an outreach counsellor for East Kent Rape Crisis Centre.
  • I am the counselling and supervising trustee for Woman’s Trust. (Woman’s Trust is the charity that helps women in London overcome the mental and emotional harm caused by domestic abuse).
  • I specialise in working with clients diagnosed with personality disorders and have a particular interest in those diagnosed with Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) and Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (C-PTSD).

Ethical Principles

I am deeply committed to, practice and abide by the principles and ethics of EATA.

Memberships

To demonstrate my competence I am a member of several organisations, each of which requires the fulfillment of particular standards of training and knowledge by its associates.

  • Full clinical member of the UK Council of Psychotherapy (UKCP)
  • Registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP)
  • Member of Metanoia Institute.

As a reflection of my work with abuse survivors, I have been accepted as a member of:

  • Ritual Abuse Information Network and Support (RAINS)
  • European Society for Trauma and Dissociation (ESTD)
  • Anti Victim Blaming, Trauma-Informed Network (AVBTI)

Leadership Experience

Apart from my psychotherapy work, I also have 25 years of experience in the business industry and have worked as a marketing director in high-profile music companies, entertainment venues, and leisure experiences, which often entailed high-pressure situations.

My extensive leadership experience has enabled me to develop valuable skills that help people thrive in stressful situations. I am adept at mentoring and coaching individuals to reach their potential in both academia and business.

My Ramsgate practice is a 1 minute walk from both Waitrose and the seafront. Being 1 mile away from Ramsgate Train Station, I am within easy reach of Margate, Broadstairs, Dumpton, Birchington, Westgate, Pegwell, Sandwich, Deal, Dover, Whitstable and Herne Bay.
My London practice is in Harley Street W1G, making it within easy reach of North London, Islington, Euston, Camden and Central London. – Please note: hours at my London practice are currently very limited.